So it's been a minute since I've posted but I just wanted to provide a quick life update. As of Thursday, I am officially done with my second year of law school. Well, maybe not officially. I still have to wait for my grades to come in ... but I'm sure they're great sooo yea, there's that. It's crazy to think that I am now entering my final year of law school. I started this blog when I was going through the admissions process and it really does not seem like that long ago. I literally feel like it was yesterday that I was torn between New York and Miami (and then somehow ended up in California). It's such a crazy and scary thought. In either way, I'm so blessed to have made it this far and I definitely look forward to closing out my final year. I will be back soon with a better update and hopefully some pics to make these posts more visually appealing lol.
Also, I'll be working with one of LA's most well-known attorneys this summer so that is also really exciting. I'm still deciding if I will say exactly who he is ... but for now, just know that I think it's a really great opportunity so I'm glad that it has come my way!
Til next time!
Saturday, May 2, 2015
Monday, March 30, 2015
It's been a little while since I've actually written out a real life update so if you've been waiting for one ... today is not your day! I have so many pictures that I've been meaning to post but with the end of the semester coming along, I just haven't found the time. So today will be a picture heavy post. I will try and caption as best I can to give you all an idea of what's been happening. Here we go!
Friday, March 20, 2015
Since I started law school, I've learned a lot about myself. I've discovered more about the type of person I am and more importantly, the type of person I want to be. I know it's no secret but I will still point out that who you are will depend greatly on the people around you. So when I say "relationships," I am not only talking about intimate relationships. I am talking about all the interactions we have on a day-to-day basis. We can't always choose the people around us, but we can decide how and how much we interact with that person. Making smarter decisions when it comes to the people around you will help you become a much happier, and hopefully a better version of yourself.
1. It is okay to stop caring about people who don't care about you. Consider it cleansing.
For whatever reason, this has probably been one of the hardest concepts for me. I was raised to treat people with respect and I strive to do that for the most part. There is, however, a fine line between treating someone with respect and living to please that person. Respect is earned. So if a person cannot show you the respect that you deserve, it really doesn't make sense for you to continue to go out of your way for that person. This doesn't mean that you should deliberately be rude to them ... it just means that you have to recognize when the time comes to put yourself first. You don't have to feel bad about ignoring their calls/texts or not actively seeking to be a part of their life. You cannot feel bad for treating people the way that they treat you.
This is also a big one. Sometimes I tend to let a lot of things slide in relationships because I know that somewhere, deep down, the other person really loves me and cares about me. I had to realize that although this is important, I cannot use this fact to justify anything that happens in that relationship. If someone is constantly hurting me, eventually it will not matter how much that person loves me. If they cannot figure out how to manifest that love in a way that is not detrimental to my being, then that is not the love for me. It is kind of like separating a person's intent from the result. They might mean well, but if they cannot do well ... what difference does it make in the end?
3. Forgiveness doesn't make you weak. Sometimes it opens the door to a newer, better relationship.
I do not want this to become a post about how to cut people out of your life. I do believe that cutting people out of your life is a valuable skill and often times takes a lot of strength but sometimes, allowing people to re-enter your life can be just as valuable. Sometimes people do things to us that may seem unforgivable. Personally, I don't really believe there is anything that anyone can do to us that is truly unforgivable (besides like, murder or something). Forgiveness is a personal decision and although not everyone who hurts us deserves forgiveness, sometimes it is for the best. I have personally reconnected with people who I never thought I would speak to again and I am honestly so glad that I have. People change and a lot of times your past negative experiences with a person can lead to a much healthier relationship in the long run. There is a different kind of strength that comes along with rebuilding a relationship that you thought was beyond repair. It teaches you to appreciate that person more and in a strange way, it brings hope back into your life. One of my most transparent friendships right now exists with someone who I hated just three years ago. But because of what we've been through, I almost feel like I can tell him anything ... that is priceless. Of course, only you can decide when you're ready to give someone another chance. I guess my point is that sometimes other people in your life will discourage you from venturing into these new/old/revamped relationships (with good reason). But if you proceed with caution and keep an open mind, you'll be surprised at the blessings that may be awaiting you on the other side.
Tuesday, March 10, 2015
Swimsuit Top: Victorias Secret, Shorts: Garage (Similar : Urban Outfitters), Bag: Longchamp
I'm on Spring Break so my sister and friend are visiting me from Toronto. It's my friend's first time in LA so we are doing all the fun touristy things ... like Santa Monica Pier and Third Street Promenade! The weather this week has been more than cooperative so I'm glad that they're actually able to enjoy the Cali sunshine. We mostly just walked around and ate good food ... you know, typical stuff. We ate dinner at Locanda Del Lago and it was pretty good. I ordered the tuna tartare and although I didn't appreciate it paired with the plantain chips, separately I was content. Stay tuned for the rest of our trip lol ...
Wednesday, March 4, 2015
Sweatshirt: Forever 21, Jeans: American Eagle, Booties: Forever 21, Bag: Louis Vuitton
I flew to Vegas for about 8 hours today to handle some business. I'm currently back in the LA airport waiting on my sister to arrive because we're just days away from law school spring break !!!! Anyway, I thought I would share what I wore on my short little trip! Super casual and AFFORDABLE outfit. I know a lot of us are at that stage where Forever 21 clothing is no longer appealing ... but somewhere in the midst of all the obnoxiously see-through blouses and strange printed pants, are some pretty basic items that can easily be incorporated into your slightly more "grown up" wardrobe. Hope you enjoy!
Wednesday, February 25, 2015
I love Spotify. I think it's a great way to discover new music and I truly appreciate all of their playlists. I'm probably late with a lot of my music finds (law school can do that to you,) but I thought I would share one particular song that I'm really feeling at the moment. It's Ariana Grande- One Last Time. I don't even know why but this song really resonates with me. Even though she gets a lot of hate, Ariana has an incredible voice and that is not up for debate. Further, I feel a lot of people can relate to some of the lyrics ...
"I don't deserve it; I know I don't deserve it. But stay with me a minute ... I swear I'll make it worth it. Can't you forgive me, at least just temporarily? I know that this is my fault. I should have been more careful."
While we're add it. Here are a few more Spotify songs that I am loving at the moment:
Fifth Harmony- Boss; Sia- Elastic Hearts, Pitbull- Time Of My Life
Sunday, February 8, 2015
Crop Top: The Area; Skirt: LF Stores; Shoes: Zara; Clutch: Aldo
I apologize for the poor quality. I didn't exactly plan on doing an outfit post that night so I really only took Instagram appropriate selfies lol. But then I thought after the fact, why not share a "going out" post with you guys. That could be fun, right? So here it is. This past weekend, I took a break from working on my article for my law school journal and went out with some friends. It was a really fun and much needed break from legal research! My favorite part of this outfit is the skirt. I don't really shop at LF often but anytime I've gone in there I've found something that I love! Like, remember the time I found this sweater there? So yea, if ever you're in LA, I would recommend checking that store out. As a matter of fact, I need to go back!